Emotional Intelligence is rife even made the seminar discussed the cost of expensive, while in the 20th century (th 90's) people are very concentrated with the Intelligence Quotient (IQ) or Intelligence Brain.
Why? Psychological experts said the world who has conducted surveys, it turns out someone's success in life 90% determined by his emotional intelligence (EQ), whereas IQ is only played by 10% only.
Wow, so enlarging the role of EQ in the success of one's life? Yes, one form of emotional intelligence (EQ) is the ability to speak, as an example: An employee who has a high IQ (intelligent / smart or clever) but did not dare speak or reveal what he had in mind to others, it is not guaranteed adasatu people will ever know that he was clever / smart / clever or have a high IQ.
If we noticed almost no leaders (elders) of the world, businessmen, eminent politician, who does not have the ability to speak (especially public speaking). No doubt that one's emotional intelligence (EQ), the ultimate must-have for success is the ability to speak.
In the international stage who is not familiar with Barack Obama? How a Barack Obama who brings new hope for American society with a riveting speech (public speaking) and other key qualities that he was elected as presidential candidate of the democrat party.
Not Barack Obama that we will discuss and peeled but who has been appointed vice president by Barack Obama some time ago, Senator Joseph (Joe) Biden, who currently serves as Chairman of the Senate Foreign Relations Committee of the United States.
Why, what's wrong and what is interesting with the figure of Joe Biden? 65-year-old man was known as a negotiator who had helped to shape the security policy and U.S. foreign relations for decades. Biden is considered as one of the most charismatic member of the senate. But that's not what intrigued me to write an article about Joe Biden. A very interesting from a Joe Biden, for me is the life of her childhood.
Biden has spent more than half his life in the Senate. He was first elected to the Senate when he was 29 years old. He became the youngest senator in U.S. modern history.
Who would have thought, when as a child, Biden often teased by her classmates. This is because Biden's speaking style who stutter. Biden tried hard to eliminate child kegagapannya. She was always terrified every time to read it in class. To overcome the weaknesses
that, Biden diligent practice reading aloud in front of the mirror. Now, Biden is known as an accomplished speaker and candidate for vice president of the democrat party.
Yes, Joe Biden tersebutlah childhood that drew me to write this article. It turns out capability (including guts) Public speaking (public speaking) was instrumental to our success.
Most of us think that Speech (in public / many people) is a very frightening specter, "yes if I can not Dunk a talk, something else behind the scenes ... I just ... anyway I support deh .. .. " That was one comment from my friend some time ago in an event in asking to speak in front.
Fear of Speaking in front of (public speaking)? .. ..
No need is concerned because you are not alone. In a survey of the things
most in fear by the population in England was the first position is: Speaking in Front of General (Public Speaking) and the second most in fear is Dead (Death).
Weird yes ..... koq more afraid of asking to speak than die ... hehehe. ... but there it is ... Strange but true.
Then how do I overcome a fear of public speaking (public speaking)? You already know the answer to that is learned from childhood the story of Joe Biden over. Basically the main and most effective ways by Joe Biden to overcome fear of public speaking (public speaking) there are only two, namely:
1. Volition Strong (Strong Willingness)
Strong willingness for what? Yes before you have the courage to speak in public and become a good speaker, of course your fear should be removed first. Now, to eliminate it you must have a strong willingness to move from fear to be brave. Everything will happen in the beginning starts with a
intentions or wishes. Why the willingness to change is to be strong? Yes, if you have only a modest willingness to so secured is definitely that fear will reappear and eventually there will not be any action to change your fear into Brave.
2. Exercise .... Exercise ... and Training (Practice)
Western people say "Practice Makes Perfect", by continuing to practice it will become accustomed to or create a custom (habit) and when talking (in public) becomes a habit then your ability will continue to be refined and become better and better.
Remember what was done by Joe Biden to be able to overcome his fear and become a great speaker? Yes, he kept trying and practice reading aloud in front of the mirror. So, are you waiting for let's start talking exercise, try to start talking in front of the mirror, taking into account your appearance, then try to speak in front of one person a friend, spouse (husband / wife), child, your servant. Then try again to speak in front of two or more people who you know and still continue to hone your speaking skills by trying to speak at a meeting in the office or in your neighborhood.
Why? Psychological experts said the world who has conducted surveys, it turns out someone's success in life 90% determined by his emotional intelligence (EQ), whereas IQ is only played by 10% only.
Wow, so enlarging the role of EQ in the success of one's life? Yes, one form of emotional intelligence (EQ) is the ability to speak, as an example: An employee who has a high IQ (intelligent / smart or clever) but did not dare speak or reveal what he had in mind to others, it is not guaranteed adasatu people will ever know that he was clever / smart / clever or have a high IQ.
If we noticed almost no leaders (elders) of the world, businessmen, eminent politician, who does not have the ability to speak (especially public speaking). No doubt that one's emotional intelligence (EQ), the ultimate must-have for success is the ability to speak.
In the international stage who is not familiar with Barack Obama? How a Barack Obama who brings new hope for American society with a riveting speech (public speaking) and other key qualities that he was elected as presidential candidate of the democrat party.
Not Barack Obama that we will discuss and peeled but who has been appointed vice president by Barack Obama some time ago, Senator Joseph (Joe) Biden, who currently serves as Chairman of the Senate Foreign Relations Committee of the United States.
Why, what's wrong and what is interesting with the figure of Joe Biden? 65-year-old man was known as a negotiator who had helped to shape the security policy and U.S. foreign relations for decades. Biden is considered as one of the most charismatic member of the senate. But that's not what intrigued me to write an article about Joe Biden. A very interesting from a Joe Biden, for me is the life of her childhood.
Biden has spent more than half his life in the Senate. He was first elected to the Senate when he was 29 years old. He became the youngest senator in U.S. modern history.
Who would have thought, when as a child, Biden often teased by her classmates. This is because Biden's speaking style who stutter. Biden tried hard to eliminate child kegagapannya. She was always terrified every time to read it in class. To overcome the weaknesses
that, Biden diligent practice reading aloud in front of the mirror. Now, Biden is known as an accomplished speaker and candidate for vice president of the democrat party.
Yes, Joe Biden tersebutlah childhood that drew me to write this article. It turns out capability (including guts) Public speaking (public speaking) was instrumental to our success.
Most of us think that Speech (in public / many people) is a very frightening specter, "yes if I can not Dunk a talk, something else behind the scenes ... I just ... anyway I support deh .. .. " That was one comment from my friend some time ago in an event in asking to speak in front.
Fear of Speaking in front of (public speaking)? .. ..
No need is concerned because you are not alone. In a survey of the things
most in fear by the population in England was the first position is: Speaking in Front of General (Public Speaking) and the second most in fear is Dead (Death).
Weird yes ..... koq more afraid of asking to speak than die ... hehehe. ... but there it is ... Strange but true.
Then how do I overcome a fear of public speaking (public speaking)? You already know the answer to that is learned from childhood the story of Joe Biden over. Basically the main and most effective ways by Joe Biden to overcome fear of public speaking (public speaking) there are only two, namely:
1. Volition Strong (Strong Willingness)
Strong willingness for what? Yes before you have the courage to speak in public and become a good speaker, of course your fear should be removed first. Now, to eliminate it you must have a strong willingness to move from fear to be brave. Everything will happen in the beginning starts with a
intentions or wishes. Why the willingness to change is to be strong? Yes, if you have only a modest willingness to so secured is definitely that fear will reappear and eventually there will not be any action to change your fear into Brave.
2. Exercise .... Exercise ... and Training (Practice)
Western people say "Practice Makes Perfect", by continuing to practice it will become accustomed to or create a custom (habit) and when talking (in public) becomes a habit then your ability will continue to be refined and become better and better.
Remember what was done by Joe Biden to be able to overcome his fear and become a great speaker? Yes, he kept trying and practice reading aloud in front of the mirror. So, are you waiting for let's start talking exercise, try to start talking in front of the mirror, taking into account your appearance, then try to speak in front of one person a friend, spouse (husband / wife), child, your servant. Then try again to speak in front of two or more people who you know and still continue to hone your speaking skills by trying to speak at a meeting in the office or in your neighborhood.
